Assalamu Alaikum Wa Rahmatullahi Wa Barkatuhu I am a girl of 23 years from Nagaland and want to seek your advice, for Nikah. I am fearing fitnah and want to protect myself from any kind of Haram acts. I want to complete my Half Deen but I am reluctant to ask my parents for help or find someone for myself to talk to my parents, in this regard. My parents aren't putting much efforts and give illogical reasons to those who talk about my marriage. I am in need to do Nikah & move out from the place where I am living as it is affecting my spiritual life. I am looking forward to your response & advice for this matter.
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Muhammad Hy
Apr 7, 2019
CODE :Fiq9230
In the name of Allah, and all praise be to Allah, and may prayers and peace be upon the Messenger of Allah, his family, his companions, and those who followed him.
In this case, your parents may have some better reasons to reject this proposal or delay your marriage such as foreseeing any danger in your future. As you know parents, normally, do hurry to get their daughters married with any suitable one as they dream and work for her better future. But if you see them refusing a good proposal because of religiously unimportant factors you may raise the issue the Qazi, who is the custodian of the helpless or oppressed woman and he can settle her tension in a reasonable as well as Islamic way. He shall check the authenticity and purity of this proposal and try to convince your parents to subject to the law of Allah. And the Qazi is authorized to get you married instead of you father if he is still refusing without considerable whys & wherefores.
May Allah Bless us with proper knowledge and practice.
